For crying out loud, you know I love you... Who of us has not lost one we loved? We all understand the shock and pain of grief. It’s a personal response, a private struggle. Yet human behaviour can astound us with its shabby ‘enjoyment’ of others’ sorrow. We have to endure TikTok onlookers without tact or decent human empathy, endless social media speculation, analysis of facial expression, jibber jabber on whether the bereaved display ‘correct’ levels of grief. And then ther